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Destiny

 "I love destinies! It is amazing how God can use one door to bring about many opportunities and possibilities.  Trust in the destiny God has for you." - By Kayinsola 

Confidence

 "Confidence is the best form of beauty. The minute you become confident, you become unstoppable. Embrace everything that you are and meant to be.". - Robor. M

Why try to be someone you are not?!

 "If you cannot fully be yourself without the contemplation of your race and what people think, you are shortchanging yourself.  And you are missing out on something that could be absolutely beautiful and worthwhile." - Robor. M                    

If you live a life trying to please everyone, you will end up unhappy!!!

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                                                     I'm sure we all know who Adele is..... She has such a beautiful and soulful voice. A voice that many of us wish we have but don't and try to get but it's highly impossible to.  Quite impossible!! Except ofcourse if God decided to give it to us by chance.  Remember when Adele came to the scene?  She was big and not the "ideal" body type as most would say and she was ridiculed for being too big and not properly caring for herself.  Remember in the past probably the 17th century or thereabout, being fat was an indication that you were rich because it meant you had money because you had enough food to eat. Nowadays if you are fat, you are called lazy or ugly or some other word that is in the category of body shaming.  So here was Adelle with an amazing voice that could probably shake the heavens but people were so focused on the fact that she was a big girl. Why? Because people are generally unhappy!!! They always w

Silence is the best answer for a fool

"You can earn respect by simply keeping quiet and not having to explain or prove yourself. People will know you by your fruits. I did not know how important and deadly silence was until I had to use it."   - By Kayinsola

Peculiarity

 "Peculiarity isn't about finding another way to think outside the box. It is about creating a new box for yourself. A box designed by God Himself". - By Kayinsola

The choices we make, determine the destinies we will have!

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  I was watching Meghan Markle on a video interview asking Emily Ramshaw about her company called the 19th and it hit me. Who you get married to is very important. It either makes or breaks you, which decides the path that you will take.  Whether you will miss or meet your destiny.  It is not about how he or she looks and the kind of bodies that they have.  It is about their character, their individuality and what they will bring to the table.  It is about them fitting into you like Eve fitted into Adam and vice versa. Flesh of your flesh. Bones of your bones. It is about timing and doing things correctly.  Instead of letting emotions and the clock of biology control your decisions. Before Harry, no one knew who she was or cared.  I mean unless you watched Suits.  But one still did not know or care who she was. Now, after marrying Harry, despite the backlash, harsh press and the negativity, whether you choose to believe it or not, the world is at her feet.   Time wasn't of the esse

Life is not a word! It is an experience!

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  If life was a person who would she be? Or would it be a he? What would life entail?  Would life be sweet? Would life be bitter? Would it be fair? Would it be understanding? Would it be beautiful or ugly? Sad or happy? Scarred or smoothed? Tainted or untouched? Innocent or guilty? Loved or unloved? Free or trapped? What would life be? You see life means different things to different people. It can't be contained in a box. It can't be described by one person or one description. How you see life is not how I see it. How she sees life is not how he sees it. Life is both beautiful and ugly. Innocent and guilty. Harsh and fair. Free and trapped.  Life is life and cannot be contained in a description in a box. It's not an object. It's a journey. And there are different paths we take in this journey called life❤️