The choices we make, determine the destinies we will have!

 

I was watching Meghan Markle on a video interview asking Emily Ramshaw about her company called the 19th and it hit me. Who you get married to is very important. It either makes or breaks you, which decides the path that you will take.  Whether you will miss or meet your destiny.  It is not about how he or she looks and the kind of bodies that they have.  It is about their character, their individuality and what they will bring to the table.  It is about them fitting into you like Eve fitted into Adam and vice versa. Flesh of your flesh. Bones of your bones.

It is about timing and doing things correctly.  Instead of letting emotions and the clock of biology control your decisions. Before Harry, no one knew who she was or cared.  I mean unless you watched Suits.  But one still did not know or care who she was. Now, after marrying Harry, despite the backlash, harsh press and the negativity, whether you choose to believe it or not, the world is at her feet.   Time wasn't of the essence for her. She married at 37 and attained everything she ever wanted. Including meeting her destiny.  

Now if you are going to point out the fact that she was married before, then this is how I see it. Her first marriage represents what most of us do.  We let time dictate our path and society influence our decisions.... Instead of listening to our hearts, we listen to opinions and voices that don't pay rent but live in our heads.  And end up making decisions that don't fit us or our lifestyles or destinies.  Which lead to us missing our destinies, and our inevitable destruction. Unless, ofcourse we are lucky or favored.

Her second marriage represents those of us who choose to wait and make patience our companion and friend. And we don't see the world the way the world sees itself. And when we do that, joy indeed comes in the morning and things are aligned and destinies are met and we rise to the occasion. Because we have chosen to wait upon the Lord and follow our hearts and not time or the opinions of society. 

I dont know what the future holds for Meghan, but obviously you should know by now that this is not just about marriage but also about the life choices we make based on rationality or irrationality.  It all depends on the path you choose to follow.....Capiche?!