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What is Romance/Love all about

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  I want to broach on the subject of romance a little bit. I want to talk about it, explore it, and know what it means to be romantically involved with another person.  Does your body have to respond a certain way? Or are you just calm and sure about what you want?  Is it about dates or outings or getting to know one another? What does it mean to be romantic? Are you in a kind of love dance? What is it? What should it be? What does it entail? Is it another name for love? Or perhaps a relative of love? Can one be without the other or are they both needed for two humans to come together in matrimony?  Romance.......what exactly does it entail? Why are two people who have chosen to come together said to be romantically involved? Why not lovingly involved?  From what I have gathered from Merriam Webster, the word romance derives from the old French vernacular Romanus, meaning rome or roman.  This word was often used to narrate the chronicle adventures of knights.  This word also has two me

How to stop damaging your life!

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  The moment you see demons or start to see demons, that is when you realize that nothing is as it seems.  This is when you realize the spirituality of life.  Words are spiritual and what you speak into your life will become.  This is why we humans have to be careful about what we say to and about ourselves. I have seen how my words and thoughts have affected me in the past. There is no going back once the deed is done.  Once the words have been spoken, your life becomes signed, sealed and delivered.  The minute these words are spoken, they are created in the spiritual, then manifested eventually in the physical.  We can't just say things because of feelings.  We must say things because of purpose.  We must speak words with meaning and with purpose and not speaking them because that is what everyone is doing.  Word are not trends!  They have life and death in them. They have the power to create, and that creation can either lead to more life or destruction.  Words are what God used

True repentance

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  True repentance brings you to a place of deliverance and healing. Of wholeness and longing. Of growth and becoming. True repentance brings you to a place of freedom and peace. Of acceptance and completeness. Of sacrifice and yet blessings. True repentance brings you to a place of eyes being opened, ears being opened and communication with Christ.  True repentance brings you to a place of love, answered prayers and unity with Christ. And taking a complete 180 degree turn away from sin and towards Christ Jesus.  - By Robor.M

Destiny

 "I love destinies! It is amazing how God can use one door to bring about many opportunities and possibilities.  Trust in the destiny God has for you." - By Kayinsola 

Confidence

 "Confidence is the best form of beauty. The minute you become confident, you become unstoppable. Embrace everything that you are and meant to be.". - Robor. M

Why try to be someone you are not?!

 "If you cannot fully be yourself without the contemplation of your race and what people think, you are shortchanging yourself.  And you are missing out on something that could be absolutely beautiful and worthwhile." - Robor. M                    

If you live a life trying to please everyone, you will end up unhappy!!!

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                                                     I'm sure we all know who Adele is..... She has such a beautiful and soulful voice. A voice that many of us wish we have but don't and try to get but it's highly impossible to.  Quite impossible!! Except ofcourse if God decided to give it to us by chance.  Remember when Adele came to the scene?  She was big and not the "ideal" body type as most would say and she was ridiculed for being too big and not properly caring for herself.  Remember in the past probably the 17th century or thereabout, being fat was an indication that you were rich because it meant you had money because you had enough food to eat. Nowadays if you are fat, you are called lazy or ugly or some other word that is in the category of body shaming.  So here was Adelle with an amazing voice that could probably shake the heavens but people were so focused on the fact that she was a big girl. Why? Because people are generally unhappy!!! They always w

Silence is the best answer for a fool

"You can earn respect by simply keeping quiet and not having to explain or prove yourself. People will know you by your fruits. I did not know how important and deadly silence was until I had to use it."   - By Kayinsola

Peculiarity

 "Peculiarity isn't about finding another way to think outside the box. It is about creating a new box for yourself. A box designed by God Himself". - By Kayinsola

The choices we make, determine the destinies we will have!

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  I was watching Meghan Markle on a video interview asking Emily Ramshaw about her company called the 19th and it hit me. Who you get married to is very important. It either makes or breaks you, which decides the path that you will take.  Whether you will miss or meet your destiny.  It is not about how he or she looks and the kind of bodies that they have.  It is about their character, their individuality and what they will bring to the table.  It is about them fitting into you like Eve fitted into Adam and vice versa. Flesh of your flesh. Bones of your bones. It is about timing and doing things correctly.  Instead of letting emotions and the clock of biology control your decisions. Before Harry, no one knew who she was or cared.  I mean unless you watched Suits.  But one still did not know or care who she was. Now, after marrying Harry, despite the backlash, harsh press and the negativity, whether you choose to believe it or not, the world is at her feet.   Time wasn't of the esse